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Neil Chethik, author of FatherLoss, wants to hear your reaction to his book. In what ways did FatherLoss help you? Where did it fall short? What else would you like to read on the topic? Contact Neil directly by e-mail, or at P.O. Box 8071, Lexington, KY 40533. He reads each note, and responds to each writer.

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COMMENTS FROM READERS

"What a lovely book! I got it yesterday and read it last night. My dad is alive and 86, and I think a lot about what it will be like when he dies, so the book really interested me. Your book is a very original piece of research, written with REAL FEELING AND COMPASSION. Congratulations! By the way, have you seen the book, "Kaddish," about the death of a man's father, and the man's year of grieving? It's a fascinating perspective on the use of traditional religious ritual to grieve."
— Stuart S., Cambridge, Mass.

"I can't thank you enough for your wonderful book. After 25 years, I finally feel like I understand myself. My father died when he was a few weeks shy of his 45th birthday, and just after I had turned 15. Most of my years from age 15 to 35, I struggled with alcohol and drug addictions, depression, and a basic emotional detachment that lead to many failed relationships. Eventually, I began to suspect that there was a connection with my father's death. Your book has confirmed that suspicion. I NOW RECOMMEND YOUR BOOK TO MY FRIENDS AS A WAY THAT THEY CAN BETTER UNDERSTAND MY PERSONALITY QUIRKS. I can say that you essentially encapsulated those 20 years in the first two chapters of your book."
— David D., St. Louis, Mo.

"Three years ago, my husband was killed in car, by an elderly woman driving the wrong way on the highway. Our two sons, then 19 and 22, were devastated and have struggled with their dad's death. My younger son won't drive a car. I bought your book with much interest and anticipation. It was so helpful. I'VE READ MANY BOOKS, AND THIS IS THE FIRST ONE THAT REALLY ADDRESSES MY CONCERNS. I PLAN TO GIVE EACH OF MY SONS YOUR BOOK. I can only hope that they will read it."
— Tammy L., Youngstown, Ohio

"Thank you for the research and the writing of FatherLoss. My own paternal parent is anxiously looking foward to my next visit with him. I love the man, yet I do not cherish all of the memories. So, my strategy is to make better and fresher ones while we can.... I LOVE MY DAD, EVEN MORE SO AFTER READING YOUR BOOK."
— Michael M., Los Angeles

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